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Western Dating vs. Eastern Dating
- December 14, 2019
- Posted by: admin
- Category: Blog
As discussed in the previous chapter, it is important to make the distinction between Western and Eastern concepts. As such, there is a huge difference between dating in the West (transactional) and dating in the East. Dating in the West comes with a built-in assumption that you are still single and are open to see other people while you are having sex with someone. Unless you specifically had a “define the terms of the relationship” discussion, you cannot assume that the Western girl will be dating just you. She is open to date whomever she wants and is not looking to fall in love. As such, you should be dating other people as well even while you are having sex with a Western girl. The interaction should be merely transactional (sex).
Western Dating Rule: Date Other Women
The rule for Western dating is to date other women even when you find one that you want to be exclusive with. The reason is that in the West, the girls will not reciprocate with exclusivity or love. The key is to have an abundant marketplace of women to keep sex ubiquitous.
On the other hand, in the East, when you are having sex with a girl, the assumption is that you will be monogamous with just her since it is assumed that the dating is really just the precursor to the long term relationship moving towards true love. Dating is simply the step in the relationship process in between when you first had sex and bought the promise ring. It is still advised to have a “define the terms” discussion with her but she will not be looking to play the field and will already be falling in love with you (beta).