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The Attractive Male Personality: Alpha
- December 14, 2019
- Posted by: admin
- Category: Blog
The attractive male personality is one that creates emotional tension within women and then does not break the tension but escalates and moves women towards sex where the tension is released. This is the pattern of the attractive male personality. Personality meaning that it is internalized within the communication and behavioral pattern of the individual. This attractive personality pattern is manifested in cocky & teasing communication and behavior. You use the positive tension/polarity created by cocky/teasing communication and behavior to get her to chase you which is associated with attraction. You don’t chase her or provide certainty to break the tension. Eliminate the need for certaintly and approval seeking in the relationship and allow her to experience the full range of her emotions rather than trying to control them. This is what is referred to as being “cool”.
Ultimately, the attractive personality is a challenge for a woman and allows for uncertainty which spikes her emotionality allowing her to feel the full range of her emotionality and causes her to chase you. There will be congruency tests to see if you are certainty seeking or approval seeking, but simply remain cocky & teasing with her and she will continue to chase and you physically lead towards sex. This personality becomes magnetic, attracting all women to you that you interact with. Personality drives emotional tension (i.e. good feelings) in the girl.
Tease in a serious voice directly to make her think you are being serious while leaving a shadow of a doubt. That she cannot fully tell if you are kidding. An example of would be to find sexual innuendo in everything and tease about it. Women love to talk about sex and male/female dynamics. Don’t smile with teeth and don’t laugh as you want to build the emotional tension and not release it. Keep a straight face; smiling and laughing releases the tension. Women love to tease and be teased.
Remember, we are not trying to be friendly and rapport seek, we are trying to playfully break rapport so that we categorize the interaction as sexual rather than friendship. You do not want her as a friend; it is either a lover or nothing and you interact accordingly. This gives you an edge and displays to her that you are strong and able to operate in a context of uncertainty and emotional tension which she finds very attractive.
Women are attracted to personality first, and appearances second. Women want to qualify you as to whether you are beta or alpha, inotherwords, for the friend zone or sex. Its important for men to begin qualifying women in the same capacity and begin to have a set of standards for women past physical looks. This qualification is whether or not she is beta (sex material) or alpha (friend material). If she is alpha, tell her that you think she will make a good friend.
The key to the attractive personality is the skill of attraction. It has to do with teasing and playing hard to get. The skill of attraction means being able to spark attraction right at the beginning. The key is to flirt from the very beginning of the interaction. Sexual tension gets added by flirting in a way that acknowledges the male/female dynamics.